Have you ever felt enamored with everything about your brand new job (I love this desk! This building is beautiful! My boss is a genius!) only to watch that magic and romance fade over time under the burden of stress and routine? Have you ever hated your work on some days and felt so excited about it on other days that you could hardly eat or sleep? Have you ever wondered if it’s time to stop spinning your wheels and investing your energy in a hopeless relationship…with your job?If so, you’re not alone. Our jobs and our romantic relationships are governed by many of the same impulses and the same logical and emotional decision-making processes. In order to bring satisfaction, both enterprises require effort. And in order to find happiness with both, we also need to know when to stop investing, loosen our grip, and let fate take the lead. Here are few tips that can help you fall in love and stay in love—with your romantic partner OR your job.